Woman's Best Friend Kisses Her Husband and is Caught On Home Camera, Leading to Tension in the Long-Term Friendship

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    r/AITAH u/throwradressessize • 16h AITAH for struggling to forgive my husband for his petty revenge on me? I feel CRAZY
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    My (28F) best friend (28F) kissed my husband (27M) and it's destroying me. How do I proceed?
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    I (28F) have been with my husband (27M) for six years, married for four years, and we have two kids (3F, almost 1F). Everything in our relationship is perfect for us. He's the best husband and father to our kids that I could have asked for. I am absolutely in love with him and his actions and words have always shown me that he feels the same way. There's no better feeling than going to sleep in his arms every night.
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    Last weekend, my husband and I had some friends over and we were having a barbecue. We were all outside in the backyard, surrounding my husband who was on the grill. As the food got closer to being ready to eat, we all started sitting at our backyard table. Once the food was all ready and at the table, my husband went inside to use the washroom and get another case of beer. I didn't realize that my best friend (28F) had followed him. When he was coming back out, my best friend hid behind the wal
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    After everyone left, my husband sat me down and told me what happened and showed me the footage from our living room camera. It was exactly as my husband has described it. My best friend of 10 years, the person who I treated as my literal sister, forcibly kissed my husband. After the third date with my husband, she was the one I told that I was going to marry him. She knows how much I love him and how strong our relationship is and still she chose to try to come in the middle. For year old calls
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    My best friend tried showing up the next day "just to talk" and my husband had to hold me back from beating the out of her and he kicked her out and told her to not come back. It's been almost a week now and I'm nowhere close to moving on. I don't blame my husband one bit. He's completely innocent in this and if anything, he's the victim. I've been lying down on my husband's chest and just crying every day and night. I'm so angry and frustrated and don't know what to do. My husband has been amaz
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    Mummysews • 1d Appreciate your man, honey - he's doing his best to comfort you, even though it was him who was grabbed. Show him the same love right back at him. Make him his favourite foods and just be there for him. I know you are, but make sure he knows it. <3 25.9k Environmental Ad770 • 1d Right! What a great guy :) 718
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    Howfun4me • 1d Seriously, she was so jealous of your life OP that she threw away your friendship just on the chance that she could ruin it all for you. I would completely cut contact with her and be very honest with any mutual friends about what happened. 25.8k
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    Potential-Diver3137. 1d You move on from that friendship and tell her not to contact you. There's no way she can explain it and you just can't trust her anymore. 214.3k
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    420fixieboi69 • 1d Honest to God we had the exact same situation happen. My wife's former best friend was in a long term unhappy relationship. Her boyfriend was a scrub who didn't want to get married, didn't want to go back to school, and worked a part time gig as a 35 year old trust fund barista while she took in all the money. She constantly complained about his lack of interest in , dates or even alone time with her. She wants to be a mom, he hates kids. She was 35 and willing to stay because
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    My wife and I had a bunch of friends over for a big party the day before our wedding, we had a courthouse wedding so this was like our reception. She came over to help me set up while my wife was gone getting her hair done. As I turned the corner to set up the table she came out and put her hand on my chest and leaned in to kiss me. I gently pushed her away and pretended like it didn't happen. Didn't want to ruin my wife's party. It was eating me up and I told my wife the next day after we had w
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    This girl had a string of bad relationships with complete chuds. Her current partner didn't really like her and she was just looking for happiness. My wife and I have been together for 10 years and are best friends. We've had our issues but overall we love each other and genuinely enjoy our time together. We are both ambitious in both our careers and passions and are raising a beautiful baby girl together.
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    I'm not a super hot guy. I'm balding, athletic but no six pack. I'd rate myself a 6.5 on a good day. It wasn't about that. It was that this woman was seeing her best friend happy and getting married, something that she would likely never have. Maybe she wanted to sabotage her friend's happiness because misery loves company. Maybe she saw a man who is willing to commit and love his wife and wanted to steel me away as a last ditch effort to have that in her own life. Either way, after staying up f
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    vndin • 1d You've got a real loyal man. Love him and hold him tight. As for the friend... I too would be piiiiiiiisssed. She just tried to grenade your marriage with no warning at all, I'm not sure any "talking" is necessary. To me that relationship is over. Quite honestly, u have footage... id put that out there so she cannot try to spin a bs story to play the victim 758 ♡
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    InvisibleChance • 1d Move on from her. She is not your friend. If your husband was not loyal, she would have started having an affair with him. She is not someone you need in your life, you can't trust her. You will have to proceed by putting that friendship behind you. 68
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    seraflm • 1d Who cares how she spins it, no need to escalate the situation further in my opinion. Just a former friend if anyone asks, I'd keep it private until it's forgotten 19
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    sikeleaveamessage · 1d • I wouldnt put out the footage just yet, but def keep it in case she denies or spread rumors. Don't be shy about telling people the truth tho if people ask "oh why don't you hang out with so- and-so anymore" and definitely let your mutuals know 216
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    reditttter085 · 1d What if the husband knew he couldn't kiss her because of the house cameras and they've been at it for ages but she can't even tell OP now that she's been kicked out and they've gone non contact. Or is that mad 25
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    ixnine. 1d I'm sincerely sorry, I don't mean to be a skeptic and contradict everyone's advice here, but I'm almost inclined to suggest (calmly) asking your (ex) best friend if there's anything going on between her and your husband, just to make sure and rule out something worse. What struck me as odd was her a) spontaneous kiss at such a gathering at your place with so many people and b) her emotional breakdown when she ran off. Your husband is also aware of the camera situation and could also b
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    Twar121.1d This seems too weird.... Why would she do that unprovoked? It could be possible that they are having an affair and she came in to sneak a kiss but didn't realize there were cameras. His reaction may have seemed genuine but more so the shock of getting caught potentially. Also could just be a weird random thing she decided to do but I wouldn't be so sure. 51

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